Friday, June 04, 2010

Writing an apology letter.

Writing an Apology Letter

An apology letter shows that you are sorry and says that you value your relationship with the other party. The sooner an apology letter is written and sent out the better it is for the relationship. Depending on the nature of the letter, it can either be written in the friendly or the business letter format.
 Friendly/Personal Apology Letter

If this is a personal letter you should start the letter by saying that you are sorry to the recipient. Next you should admit your fault and take responsibility for your actions. Next you should volunteer or ask if there is any way that you can help out to resolve the situation. Then you should let the recipient that you will try to make sure that the situation will not happen again. To close off the letter you should apologize again. When writing a personal apology letter it should come from the heart and be sincere.

Formal/Business Apology Letter
If this is a business letter you should start the letter by saying that you are sorry to the recipient. Next you should give an explanation as to what went wrong. Then you should try to rectify the problem. To close off the letter you should apologize again.

taken from: letterwrittingguide

Wednesday, June 02, 2010


A few weeks ago, you asked me, " What is the most important matter in one life?" I was speechless, as I was clueless cause I have too many interpretation for the question you asked. The next day, my answer just suddenly pops up. That was what I always practice in my life. and couple of days ago, I received this forward mail in my inbox, pretty much explain my answer. It says~
Don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a BALANCED, successful life. I used the word BALANCED before successful. BALANCED means ensuring your Health, Relationships, mental Peace are all in good order. There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of you break up. (nodding)
There is no fun of driving a car if your back hurts. (totally understand). Shopping is not enjoyable if you mind is full of tension.
Life is one of those races in kindergarten where you have to run with a ping pong ball on a spoon kept in your mouth, if the ping pong ball falls, there is no point coming first. Same is with life where health, relationships are the ping pong ball. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive will start to die.
=Don't be serious, be Sincere=quoted by Chetan Bhagat at Symbiosis

Striving for aBaLance

Tuesday, June 01, 2010

gentle reminder to Denise

I know you are doing a great job....just keep the feeling and thought clear in your mind.
refresh it now and than...
eyes on the guys, eyes on the guys...( funny la U, I mean me )
Make the goal clear, don't miss the mark.


Friday, May 28, 2010

Ms Independent 2

What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
What a sad statement to be claimed. I am afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. Thus I'd make myself very independant. But the desire of having someone to rely on and the insecurity of might not having that someone in times were all so pathetically strong.
Time after time, my parents and you and all my pass has make me M3. I am here glad and no glad.
I don't ever want to be unable to take care of myself.
Independence is significantly important to me...equivalent to have someone to rely on...
I LoVe U
As obedient as a girl I am...
I'd almost picking up all the things you told me...
aLmost all...
I am moving on, yeah...
moving ahead...
moving away...

my purse is thirsty
Can't believe after I have been blogging for 2 years here...
this is the first time I blog with updated toolbar.
WTH, I am a Super Dumbo.

YesterDay was generally a good Day. ( provided my major is to run away from truth.)
I just wanna share this 2 funny unknown people who cheer my day up on the street.
Ya On the Road, I should say.
I was driving to Ue3 to work and was stoping by at the traffic light near the Stadium Badminton Cheras.
then this man in God know wig or his own blonde clown afro hair, Bao Zha Head from the next lane in his driving seat, turn to me and wave Hi...
I was like..."Hi" (waving la)
than I can't stop gigling in the car...covering my mouth...
Than sis came and get my car, so she called me a cab.
Hop on the cab and heading back home.
On the way back, there is this another cab on my right...with a passanger sitting in the front...
basically a plump late teen boy, looking at me...
show me ghost face (tongue out) and than start smilling.
What a day to have 2 stranger in life to make your day.
aLways be gratefuL.
nVr give up

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

One Year aGo

This was one year ago...posted on the 29thMac2009

Do this QuiZ

Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. ( betulkah?) This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love:

Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

Success in your career is not the most important thing in life.You are content with what you have and think that being with someone you love is more than spending all of your precious time just working.

What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.

Who is your true self:

You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.


Your view on yourself:

You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You are not looking merely for a girl/boyfriend - you are looking for your life partner. Perhaps you should be more open-minded about who you spend time with. The person you are looking for might hide their charm under their exterior.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:

Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

Success in your career is not the most important thing in life. You are content with what you have and think that being with someone you love is more than spending all of your precious time just working.

What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.

Who is your true self:

You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.


Tuesday, May 18, 2010

note to =DeN=

Dear Denise,

I know you are procrastinating, so please get your butt off the chair and take a shower.
Finish your transcription by tonight.
Distract yourself from the back ache if the medicine is not helping you. Play with you mind.
Pray for brother Tim who met an accident. and add the interpreter team in your prayer item.
Glory to God.
I LoVe you too. Be Good, okay...


Saturday, May 15, 2010


Remember I talked about job magnet all the time?
So I believe the law of attraction did applied in my life.
The 3D2N I spent in the Gem Island,
I answered a total of 2 calls, both offered me some job. it
Glory to GoD, His grace is always sufficient.

Not only it apply on my career,
it also happen to be my long waiting vacations.
it comes one after another.

I took a short break this week and reward myself a getaway break in
a wonderful private island, spent some splendid time there.
I'd plan for this to celebrate that I have officially been working for a year.
11th May 2009 was my first day in the office.

Than it will be following by the LOUD Youth Camp in PD next month.
Helping out for the 1st time, doing consecutive interpreting for SuMei JJ.
Praise the Lord too, I'd always adore brothers who interpret for the church.
It will be a perfect platform for me to start serving with my given talent.
Thanks to SuMei JJ who have got faith on me and willing to share her 1st time with me.
I pray that everything will turn out well on that day.
I knew she has been putting great efforts on this. I will do my best too.
With Lord we can do this, sister.

August coming will be my long waiting trip with Bidor Besties to the Islands in 2 countries.
Phuket via Singapore and will stop over at Singapore on the way back.

Looking forward to meet those crazy people soon, in our first meeting like after CNY?

+ve me. jamming tomorrow
p/s: wrote some short passage on my holiday, will update soon

Friday, April 30, 2010











Saturday, April 24, 2010


A few days ago, I have this thought to start writing about this...

I am a person who needs a lot of attention.
I like to be under the lime light.
Most of the time, I do not function really well in a group of people.
Through out the year, I find myself very sensitive over being abandon.
As sensitive as I am, I need a lot of focus in myself.
I need more self assurance then any others....
But I pretend as I do not need it, cause I'd given myself enough.
However, it always feel good to get compliment, right...
So I do welcome it.

Over the years, I gradually turn into a non-group animal.
I live with pairs. I have made a numbers of close friends.
Where by we spend a lot of time being just 2 of us.
I enjoyed the time, when their focus is on me and mine on them.
I have Jasmine, I have aLx, I have Jean, Sus, QY, CherRu, Reis, Kevin.
and I have had Lee Seng Cang too.
Those people who made me think I am special.
I am always grateful with their existence in my life.

As from the previous post I shared about the play I went to watch alone
I mentioned that we are all lonely cause we do not know how to express ourselves truly.

I always acted that I am able to do all things alone,
I can't understand people who can't dine out alone or watch a movie alone.
I do this quite frequently....I am a loner.
On one perspective, it really sound cool and yes, indeed to act alone, it's much less trouble...
You save a lot of time waiting for another, compromising your choice, and things like that.

But few days ago, I felt so defeated and weak...
The feeling of loneliness sudden attacks makes me so dejected...
I'd always be the one, who encourage Jas and aLx to be strong and positive...
But that day, I think I almost join them...
The reality is, there are times, that you'll fall...

However I am grateful that God will always be there for me.

Today, I return to Him and again never fail to re-bounce in Him.
Have a great time
sharing with the brothers and sisters after my first jamming session.
Thanks Sister JingJing who remind me of what really counts in our life.
She said, when she found out that she was not invited to some of the friends wedding,
she felt somehow upset, but when she think about it again,
are all these really matter that much?

I am always amazed by His great plan in my life,
that He'd put wonderful people in my life
who enrich me.

in Lord we LoVe

Thursday, April 22, 2010


There is something about Japanese and the Hotaru-The play was written by a Japanese.
It's about a story of people fill with lonesome in their life. It happen all around the world.
They just want to be together.
But even if they are together, deep down inside they might be drifting apart.
Perhaps, that will be sadder...
I am glad that I am not the only lonely spirit in the theater.
Though I am much dejected after being turn down...
But at least I do enjoy the show in a sense that
it make me realise that, that's the truth...
people are lonely and mainly because they aren't good in expressing how they feel. They tend to tell or show the other way round...
I would be one of those....

r u lonesome to9

Tuesday, April 20, 2010



莎士比亚说 爱情就像是生长在悬崖上的一朵花,想要摘就必需要有勇气.


Monday, March 22, 2010

My AuRa


how do u sense that I hv gd aura...elaborate more


anyway...ur aura is bright in color...yellowish and indigo...
u are very caring person, sumtimes very happy and sad..

ure a good person in overall...but dont test ur anger...


BounCing HappiLy

Remember the KeiMa entry few months back?

I am now exiting over the fact that he is here finally.
Welcome to the WorLd, baby.
There are alot to take in your future.
So please enjoy your happy days.
I pray for you to grow up healthily.

Mikael Faisal

Sunday, March 21, 2010


Another great song introduce by Yee Ching- what a song again on a rainy night

Dreams are my reality,
a wondrous world where I like to be
illusions are a common thing
I try to live in dreams althought it's only fantasy
Dreams are my reality,
I like to dream of you close to me
I dream of loving in the night and loving you seems right
perhaps that's my reality


You and Me-Olivia Ong

Such a nice song for rainy night.
it's like drug, can't stop replaying the song.
Hope you enjoy it too

thx YeeChing


很想輕撫你 所以避開你
寧願用距離 去令你好奇
迴避過眼神 先偷偷喘氣
吩咐手臂 放在原地
傳聞浪漫太快 愛戀都走得快
才會  遲遲未步向你 說一世愛護你

*情太過洶湧像深海 而我卻會忍耐
還沒有相擁別意外 神教會我等待
待情流像細水 才去承諾你

很心急擁抱 所以在禱告
求甜蜜以前 帶著你慢步
遊歷過旅途 等一天終老
生老病死 一起細數
原來慢慢靠近 更珍惜這一吻
而我 停留是為了你 要給予你護蔭

能為愛戀學習按耐 情信寄進心內
連地老天荒亦不更改 時間永遠等待
等你情願那天 才去承諾你
我用沈默叫醒愛情 你用期待做你反應


Saturday, March 20, 2010

LoVe LeTTers r GooD



house keeping
Every thing that I do it My Way!


Friday, March 19, 2010

My hand was shaking now...
I just finished the kick boxing training, was staying in the office for the whole day after work talking with Pearly and the girls.
Thus I did not have any food after lunch.
I almost faint during the training.

The ReTurn of the MinD reaDer


Thursday, March 18, 2010

from PaPa with LoVe

Someday, some boy will come and ask me for your hand
But I won't say "yes" to him unless I know, he's the half that makes you whole,
he has a poet's soul and the heart of a man's man
I know he'll say that he's in love
but between you and me he won't be good enough.

My little girl



Wednesday, March 10, 2010


I always think that I am your baby, you have make me M3 today,
most of the achievement I have got is your work.
You gave me opportunities.
You assist me.
You gave me support and care.
You treat me like a baby.
That you nurtured me well and equip me to face the horror world.
You said you will always be around.
But each time when you tell me that I'll be one day on my own.
I felt so sad as if like you are going to dump me soon.
I do not want to be miss Independent.


Saturday, March 06, 2010

Tuesday, March 02, 2010



How bad can one experience be to visit doctor at General Hospital?

How bad was it to be mistaken as a pregnant lady with the white missy dress you wore for 2 years?

Emotion are most affected by how we think
but not how the subjective matter that happen around us.

change ur mind set

Friday, February 26, 2010

I can’t believe that we are approaching the first quarter of the year.
So are you a step forward to the goal that you set earlier in the year.
I’m never a determine person, rarely a goal catcher.
I always believe in living according to the heart desire.
I’ll do whatever, whenever I want to do it. – One of those people

Teen was right, or everyone else is right.
How can one live without a goal.
Where are you heading to?
What is the purpose of living?

So I come to mind that I might not be a big planner.
I can’t foresee the future to far ahead.
I hardly stress myself out to reach the infinite,
I like things to happen naturally.

Hence I guess, perhaps I can make some short term goal, things that I can achieve within shorter period with more obvious result.

It will make things lots easier for me.
Let’s see.
Thus far, I have got enough funds to clear my first debt.
The second debt which I pay by instalment has only got 3 months left.
So practically I have been closer to fulfil the few 2010 resolutions of mine.
I was thinking Denise Liew, bRaVo, BraVo!

Coming up might be the PTPTN, study loan payback arrangement. Should get things started soon.
And hell ya, what about to install the air-cond in my bedroom …
Now is just the perfect time.

Basically I have started to practice a better sleeping habit except during Chinese New Year.

And setting a shorter monthly goal of not smoking seems to work well.
Thus I have been a good girl for monthx2z.
This could be due to the changes of my status to a part timer at jet*. -less stress

Apart of that, I did not miss any of my Sunday Service just yet and my wish of joining the worship dream might be realize after I join the karaoke session on the Chinese New Year youth gathering.

~Blessed is me~


Friday, February 19, 2010


打开电脑,开了new post页面, 还是有点空白.该写些什么呢?


就去探望他, 篱笆没有锁, 我们四个就在哪儿与爸爸谈了一会儿.


Monday, February 08, 2010



update pls

malfunction nose

Tonight I realized that I am handicap when my nose blocked.
By losing the sense of smell, I can't differentiate my shampoo and body shampoo.
Usually I can recognized my body shampoo fragrance cause it was so nice.
Tonight I squeeze it out and shampoo my hair happily,
but it felt extremely rough on my hair, so I thought it was because I dyed my hair.
Never mind, than I put more conditioner later.

Done with my hair, and wanted to reach my hand to the body shampoo bottle,
why is it the same bottle?
Okay fine, lets do the shampoo again,

heard it was good.

Saturday, February 06, 2010

So many times I gave up.
I tell myself, I'll leave, I have done all I could.
And if I am not, I'll throw my tantrum right in to your face,
say that I don't care anymore.
It's your life friend, no matter how much one would like to help you,
you are still the key of your own heart.

So many times I feel like slapping you to wake you up from all
those bs philosophy you have got to defense.
So many times I feel like bombing you with sarcastic word.
I hold back, I speak to myself, those line.
I digest it, I ask God, and It shouldn't be the way.

It should be mere LoVe.
Thus I am still here, sitting next to you.

I LoVe Friend, please LoVe yourself too

Wednesday, February 03, 2010

How are you toDay

I am feeling very blank in fact.
I have done so much, experienced different feeling...
and yet I keep it so cool.
A couple of days ago, my morning started bad.
My rice box jatuh after I took it our from the microwave oven.
it fell with bottom touch on ground, so it wasn't that bad,
I kutip the egg and fish that scatter on the floor and then put it back into the box,
dust with a lot of black pepper and of course I finished it.

I psycho myself, put a grin on your face
Good things will tag along.
So my day ended happily.

hope you get the moral of the story.


Monday, January 25, 2010

It's your StoRy,

thx CippY *deep thought*
When dad passed away, it was like 5 years ago,
I wrote a lot about him, about how much I miss him.
Every time when I read back those words, they never fail to make me tears.

And a year passed, I was preparing for the student exchange program,
It never seems so easy, not as what you'll said after you see me return.
That time round, I decided not to write any discourage people or word in my blog.
Every time when I felt weak, I prayed, I prayed for financial aid, I pray for faith,
I pray for God to lead me through, as He'll have a plan for me.
So you'll never find a post about my journey of preparing my student exchange program.

And years passed again...
As you grow, you know better how to control the emotions.
Being emotionless is extremely sad,
at least you ought to know who or what will worth a sleepless night.

You know what friend, I am glad that you are experiencing the feeling now.
Cause it will accomplish you as a human, help you along your life.
Experience make you Grow.

hows the coffee?

Monday, January 18, 2010

2010 wishlist-for this moment

I have mentioned about things that I want to do which might or might not involve alot of $$$

Here are some of the thing I am planing to get...
could be since last year...
Could be something I saw today at Leisure Mall...
As a good friend said- I am not good in prioritize...

1. Install Air-Cond in my room ( like it has been discuss since forever )
2. A proper bed with mattress ( Lagi Beyond Forever )
3. HiFI set (before Jas claimed she wnats for Bday, it's in my mind )
4. NetBook
5. BlackBerry
6. SunGlasses
7. Watches (did I use plural)
8. Starbucks Tumbler
9. mirror
10. *** (so reluctant to tell)

I am glad that 2 things actually happen which I think it's really God Works on Me.
First Aunt Lyna sent me the BSF class email...So I am planning to register myself in, so to complete my Bible study.
Secondly, as I prayed to God after the Sunday Service, He showed the path...
So I join the 领诗队. I always adore them, leading the praising on the stage...
Leading the service with prayer...
Learning to serve GoD...Like God...

Cantonese braVo

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Kul Sin Hkt Sin Kul

Jetstar have got a super low fare Sales on the 14th...
Every one near my cluster gone craZy...
Coming back from Singapore was like MYR 2.50-flight fare...
WTF right...
So, I was very very excited that Day....
My armpit is sweating in the air-cond very cold office...
Praying hard for the NSK not to fail me...
Debit card can't make payment for SGD...
Thx Maurisa for lending your credit card...

Looking forward for the beach holiday.


Monday, January 11, 2010

2010-still on the Resolution Page

You know how much I am a Free Spirit...
How much I hate the word Discipline...
Not even were I active in one of the Badan Berunifom back in High school...
Negative merit prefect...

This year I am gonna give myself a little challenges
that's to practice to be more discipline as a God's son, as a grown up...
Not too much of stress as usual...

Go to Church every Sunday (or Sat service, Dream Center-Boay Wei is there)...
Join the hymn singing team ( learn to serve the Lord)
Read Bible everyDay (at any time la)
=spiritual discipline needs hard work-Lydia Tang on FB=
Kick Boxing every Monday (at least this day is fixed)
Quit smoking ( so far set till January until further notice )

I am turning 24 this year, my skin is aging faster than my actual age...
that's little thing that I can do to help myself
to train myself to control my desire...
such as sleeping late

gradually bring forward my sleeping time, is one of my goal...
like a major one...
Bet it'll not only help my skin, it might clear my nose blocked problem as well...

bit by bit we can Do k...


Sunday, January 10, 2010

Thank You

I am glad that I always met good friend.
First I thanked God about granting me all these nice people around me.

Tan Gini, If only you or your friend happen to search your name on google...
you might find this post...

You are always a mr Nice Guy.
I think you are just one fabulous person.
To me you are always a cute little (not in size) banana brother.
Your smart, cheerful, playful, helpful-ness made you such a charming friend.
You have all the things people will envy of...

Being a Japanese and Malaysian Chinese mixed, did not made you a weird snob...
I adore you as a humble I should learn to be one and be pleasant in God's eye...

By showing my gratitude to you for being there,
STRETCHING your helping hand, every single time...

I really wish that if there is a chance that I am going to get marry and have a son...
I want to breed him as a gentleman like you.

thx for all the concern and ya, I'm still single after all these years...sigh

Monday, January 04, 2010

New Year Post

It's like a default gesture off all blogger...
So what's with the new year resolution...
Will like to actually do a review on the what a Blast 2009...
that will be very soon

New Year Resolutions
1.To go to church every Sunday.
2. Finish reading The Bible
3.Spending time working out
4. live healthier life
5. Clearing all the debts, it will be a brand new year!


to be continue